Monday, March 24, 2008

Tangent

((This is not directed at one person.. Most people are guilty of it....))
I'm not exactly one to live by the book... Rules are merely suggestions... That is why I hate it when people ask questions... For example... After you have been dating someone a while, people ask "When are you getting engaged?" After you get engaged, people ask "When are you getting married?" After you get married (and in my case BEFORE I'M EVEN FREAKING MARRIED) people ask, "When are you thinking about having children?" After you have the first nugget, people ask, "When is the next one going to come?" I have one response....SHUT THE ..... UP! Thanks for asking! NOT! It seriously could not TICK ME OFF more than when people try to plan my life! I'm on the other side of the FREAKING world and people are asking me about kids.... They will come....one day....hopefully.... worry about yourself! If you want kids, make them YOURSELF! Why do things (and people) have to have a plan for what is going to happen in OTHER PEOPLE'S LIVES!!?!?!??! When people ask about Mark and I having kids, I want to punch them right in the forehead and walk away. [WARNING: I'm am absolutely positive this is going to be my response to the next person who asks the question.] Nothing makes me want to have children LESS than YOU worrying about it..... Thanks for listening... PS- If you are offended by this tangent, please stop reading my blog and never talk to me again... Thanks.

2 comments:

Pammer1021 said...

Good afternoon, my darling... I will be happy when and if you and Mark decide to have children...or if you don't. If I mistakenly ever mention children to you, please do not punch me in the face. Love you!! Mom

elephantsout said...

Tiffany, you should talk to my friend Audrey. She and Jason have been engaged for over a year (almost a year and a half, but who's counting?) and they STILL have not set a date. She gets so mad when people ask her about setting a date, and she has told me multiple times that it ticks her off, but I still get on her all the time: "Set a date!" "Why haven't you set a date?" "I'm ready to throw you a bridal shower, set a date!" So she would love someone to talk to who can relate. I'll know you two chatted if I ask her about it and she punches me in the forehead. lol.